The work-ability of friendship.
“Just because a mosquito bite you, all you could do is kill. do you ever think if its an orphan mosquito ? or a motherless baby mosquito that needs to be fed? or a poor mosquito who have been ignored by the rich in the land of mosquito or a maid mosquito who has has been chased away? what if the mosquito caught its wife with its best friend and needed to get drunk or a heartbroken mosquito do you think of that?? no, no, no your blood is more important to you. you only think about yourself”.
The above illustration, with mosquito could be used to view the various ways in which we judge our friends, relatives, loved ones as well as different people we meet on daily basis.
Using friendship as a case study.
They are many people who broke up with their fiancée , after a very long time of relationship , as a result of single behavior the person deployed. Thereby, rendering a many years of relationship futile and unproductive. Should I say that they was no love from the onset of the relationship? Certainly no. They was love , what they lack is PATIENCE ,
TOLERANCE AND ENDURANCE.
For our relationship with people to work out , and stand out amongst others, the virtue of tolerance , patience , endurance, forgiveness, and love must not be overlooked, this is because they’re a vital role to play towards making the relationship and friendship with person worthwhile.
Been let’s judgmental , selflessness as opposed to selfishness off course are pivotal has it’s own role to play.
Many people in the past has made the mistake of not including or attaching this few points into their daily dealings with friends, loved ones and relations thereby increasing the level of suspicions, leading to the early ending of the friendship.
With friendship we can make the world a better place to live.